Then that makes it much easier, but still difficult.
First, edit the stored procedure spACL_ACTIONS_Initialize and add your new actions.
Second, edit the ~/_code/ACLGrid.cs file to include the new actions. This may be as simple as adding to the list, or this may require additional logic.
Third, in the ~/Administration/ACLRoles/EditView.ascx.cs file, you will need to get the new action from the grid and update the database.
Forth, in ~/_code/SplendidInit.cs, look for the LoadUserACL and InitModuleACL methods and add the new actions.
It may be helpful to search all the code for ACLACCESS_EDIT and follow duplicate any code around what you find.